Don't fall in love - - - Rise and shine for your love!
Definitely I'm not some Sena against lovebirds who are going to chirp more louder during the the second love filled week of February 2019,with showing their love to each other by showering roses, chocolate, greetings ( not cards they're outdated and you can easily get caught by moms and dads, or blackmailed by your partner later on if relationship doesn't last long-- although pics and videos are more being used to blackmail instead, with mostly on social media with their “we're in love” selfies using social media apps).
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| Happy Valentine |
I do believe in love and I've been loved so much that I actually, whenever I go to give lectures on good mentality, talk to boys and girls about gf-bf(Girlfriend-BoyFriend) culture. I'm definitely not against love but misuse of it that is being very dangerous these days.
All of us, specifically the youth (like I'm still in my 20s..always Charming.. Hmmm), are very much excited with the ‘LOVE WEEK’, ‘#VALENTINE'SDAY’, ‘THE DAY OF LOVE’ thought. Dreaming about buying gifts for him/her, asking him/her out, hesitation and fear at the same time of expressing one's emotions, being afraid of rejection, some hearts break, some do break-ups, some hearts are smiling like they've won the “Kaun Banega Crorepati”, and some will cry till the world sinks in their tears.
Hahaha!
The sting of love... Indeed!
But why most of making this, or celebrating LOVE only for a week?
Why one's emotions are bounded positively to a few days?
The suffocation of most relationships that are being a silent killer throughout years/decades, can't be relieved by only the hug day, kiss day, flower day... and so on!
All the grudges, fights, oppression, depression can't easily end with just one line- I Love You……
If you can't respect and understand your partner for life!
Am I being an “against-love rebel”?
OK, let's take that from another positive side!
When you're in love, you feel the luckiest on earth.
It's good... GOOOOOD, and it's obvious too!
But when the reality bang hard on you so dreamt “love world”, that's when the real test starts. And at that stage, often either most of the relationships break or some keep going on with worlds apart.
At least my love is not bound to a few days of February. I buy my hubby roses when I feel happy or I've achieved something or sometimes, without any reason.
Yeah, you got that right… Bravo, he doesn't buy me roses. Don't you dare laugh at it as I see the other side of his love always?
And that is……
Respect, Trust, and Compassion!
More luxurious gifts one can ever get!
Jealous… hmmm!
I may sometimes show my love with roses and gifts but he's gifting me this, every single second, minute, hour, day, week of every year since we're together!!
Thankful to God for celebrating 14 years of Love including fights, (most lasted for only a few hours mostly a night max, and the longest one was of four days.. And I won that too… hahaha). We didn't fall in love but grew up in it.
Because believing is better than showing up only!
“until we meet again, may God bless you as he's blessed me... With you”
……………………… Elvis Presley
Or my favorite song of his….
“take my hand, take my whole life too,
But I can't help falling (rising) in love with you”............... EP
So don't fall in love, rise with it as it is the most beautiful feeling in the world.
It's up to you, whether you want to be remembered as - - - - -
“”””””””””””””MY VALENTINE””””””””””””””
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . OR…………………
“”””””””MY BLOODY VALENTINE !!”””””
Article By Palak Kundra (Author Bleeding Queen)
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